rev pgsqltools version to 1.10.0, update exe name, add osx ARM runtime

[jpda]

The tools version 1.1.0 (in the original extension) are too old to support Apple arm64; later revisions do support arm64 but use a different executable name. This PR:

• updates config to use v1.10.0 of the pgsqltoolsservice (latest as of 2024/01)
• updates the name of the executable used from pgtoolsservice_main to ossdbtoolsservice_main (to reflect the change in pgtoolsservice)
• adds an arm64 runtime identifier to download the correct file name

[jpda]

@microsoft-github-policy-service agree

[jpda]

Here is a gist that references fixing it locally, I used this to unblock myself to at least use the extension https://gist.github.com/jpda/2c11dc11d51bf049aa364897c5c76085

#113
#117
#104