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<p>前些时候在相亲微博上认识了一个湖北的妹子。 </p>
<p>人很漂亮,是我喜欢的类型。 </p>
<p>可我总是感觉自己没有太大的动力去追求这个女孩子。 </p>
<p>我自己把原因归咎于自我认知良好。 </p>
<p>换而言之,不够自信。 </p>
<p>实在是觉得自己不够优秀。 </p>
<p>可又很喜欢这个女孩子。 </p>
<p>每天在微信上聊两句。 </p>
<p>总是感觉自己不应该这样。 </p>
<p>有点无所适从。 </p>
<p>我看过很多心灵鸡汤。 </p>
<p>有说如果爱她就给她自由。 </p>
<p>或者祝她幸福此类的。 </p>
<p>我觉得这都是屁话。 </p>
<p>爱是矛盾的。 </p>
<p>有占有,也有奉献。 </p>
<p>两情相悦这种事情是随缘的。 </p>
<p>一见钟情是看脸的。 </p>
<p>说到底我还是为自己不够主动追求女孩子找了个理由。</p>
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