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<p>最近芒果台在播的《我家那闺女》</p>
<p>我有在看，我特别喜欢的就是焦俊艳，美丽大方，主要是素颜也非常耐看 </p>
<p>其中所有父亲都焦虑的一个问题 </p>
<p>儿女的婚事 </p>
<p>说到这里最常见的套路莫过于相亲。 </p>
<p>所谓的相亲呢就是原本八竿子打不到一起去的两个人由于媒人这个神奇的存在而有了交集。 </p>
<p>当然我不抗拒相亲，相亲的确是给很多人解决了社交圈子小的问题，但是相亲很多时候存在的意义就是门当户对的思想。</p>
<p>转念一想也没错。</p>
<p>不同的成长环境造成很多人的三观未必一致。</p>
<p>降低风险。 </p>
<p>最让我不能容忍的网络上的个别思想。 </p>
<p>认为学历低就是别人挑剩下来的。</p>
<p>这种人有种莫名的优越感认为自己就应该卖个价钱的感觉。</p>
<p>就好像在说我是你用不起的女人。 </p>
<p>这奇葩的观点我真是不敢苟同。 </p>
<p>很多高学历的人反而会更加慎重的对待自己的婚姻。 </p>
<p>虽说婚姻与爱情不能混为一谈，但是爱情毕竟是基础。 </p>
<p>相亲中的男女就好似在做买卖。 </p>
<p>我有房有车有学历有工作有存款你有啥 </p>
<p>说难听点一个像货比三家另外一个像待价而沽 </p>
<p>真。买卖婚姻是也</p>
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