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<span title="更新于 2024.05.10"><i class="far fa-calendar-check"></i> 2024.05.10</span>
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<blockquote><h3>自动摘要</h3>
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ai: 这篇文章介绍了作者随着年龄的增长，对爱情和网恋的态度发生了变化。文章中提到，作者在年轻时通过QQ等通讯工具进行真诚的交流，但随着年龄的增长和社会经验的积累，开始隐藏真实想法，说假话成为常态。这种变化导致作者对网恋持怀疑态度，认为网恋充满虚假，感情难以把握，觉得自己变得越来越冷漠。
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<div><p>随着年龄越来越大，变得越来越不相信爱情。 </p>
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<p>网恋更是让人觉得是浪费时间与精力的事情。 </p>
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<p>其中充满了大量无意义的对话，甚至大量的虚假的问候，让人充满了怀疑，与自我怀疑。 </p>
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<p>这都是因为双方的不信任。这可能与年龄有关。 </p>
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<p>在我读书的时候，QQ是最流行的通讯工具，他的成本比发短信要来的实惠太多。</p>
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<p>那时候没有微信，但是每次上线都会有提醒，都会有许久不见的问候，那时的我们都是真实的自己。</p>
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<p>我们会把自己的真心话讲给他们听。他们包括熟识的同学朋友，以及素未谋面的网络另一端的那个熟悉的陌生人。 </p>
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<p>年级再大了些，走出校园，走进社会。开始渐渐的学会把真话藏起来，把假话说给众人听。_</p>
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<p>于是_开始怀疑他人甚至自己的话。</p>
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<p>这网恋就越发艰难，虽说现在网恋的成本没有以前那么高，但实在是感觉不到感情了。 </p>
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<p>是我们越长大越冷漠了吧。</p>
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<span> 作者: 浪子</span>
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