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<p><strong>我们为何渐渐平庸</strong> </p>
<p>我并不清楚别人是如何走向平庸,我只能说说自己。 </p>
<p>我觉得自己就是个平庸的人。</p>
<p>高不成也低不就。</p>
<p>始终厮混在社会的底层。 </p>
<p>我用“混”来形容现在的生活,就是因为自己得过且过的心态。</p>
<p>我曾读过很多心灵鸡汤,也从书中看过很多历史事迹,从媒体上了解过很多成功人士的成功历程。 </p>
<p>而我发现自己不能功成名就只能默默无闻,只是因为自己缺乏毅力,遇事怯懦,而且对现实无能为力,缺少创想。 </p>
<p>我一直都是在走一条大道,大多数人选择亦或者被迫走的路。 </p>
<p>那一少部分人走的小路以及捷径我是没办法见识到。</p>
<p>这跟生长的环境有关。无法改变。</p>
<p>虽然我不相信王侯将相宁有种,可现实如此。 </p>
<p>我觉得向现实低头这是一种很悲观的心态。</p>
<p>也可以理解为这是我为自己寻找的借口。 </p>
<p>我正是这样每天为自己的犯错甚至懒惰找各种借口所以自己才变得越来越平庸。 </p>
<p>谁人不想活得精彩。</p>
<p>成功的人只不过是少数。 </p>
<p>大多数人只是想活着而已。 </p>
<p>嗯,这不过是我的借口罢了。</p>
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