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< p > 睡到中午起床。 < / p >
< p > 到姨奶奶家吃饭。< / p >
< p > 喝了一两茅台，倒了。 < / p >
< p > 睡到三四点。 < / p >
< p > 打了2局麻将输了四十五。 < / p >
< p > 陪表妹玩没有规则的围棋。 < / p >
< p > 超没意思。 < / p >
< p > 吃完晚饭， < / p >
< p > 虽然很绚烂，只是一瞬间罢了。 < / p >
< p > 虽然现在很晚很晚了。 < / p >
< p > 在2011中秋节结束之前， ， < / p >
< p > 我祝愿我的亲戚朋友都能够万事如意。 < / p >
< p > 如同我小表妹说的，我祝你们都学习进步…… - -！ < / p >
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< p > 我有一个很大的梦想，就是每天都可以睡觉睡到自然醒。 < / p >
< p > 我有一个小小的幸福，就是每天都可以和我心爱的人一起生活。 < / p >
< p > 没有烦恼没有争吵。 < / p >
< p > 我有一个很大的愿望，就是每天都可以听到你们的笑声。 < / p >
< p > 我有一个小小的心愿，就是每天都可以和我亲爱的人一起生活。 < / p >
< p > 没有隔阂没有纷扰。 < / p >
< p > 孟子说，鱼与熊掌不可兼得。 < / p >
< p > 于是我的梦想无法实现，幸福无法掌握，愿望彻底落空，心愿没有念想。 < / p >
< p > 我多希望自己可以做到完美。 < / p >
< p > 有钱有势有车有房。 < / p >
< p > 我想没有人不希望这样。< / p >
< p > 这得付出多大的努力才可以？ < / p >
< p > 这得付出多少努力才可以从我这样的情况进化成那样完美的形态？ < / p >
< p > 估计就跟猴子变成人一样得需要漫长的几万年吧。 < / p >
< p > 我不可能夸夸其谈说努力努力。 < / p >
< p > 我没有那样锐利的锋芒，没有那冲破一切的精神。 < / p >
< p > 我只能成为《老男孩》中那平凡到渣的无数人中的其中之一。 < / p >
< p > 如此。而已。< / p >
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< p > 历史中的老子，姓李名耳字聃，又字伯阳，春秋时楚国苦县人。曾任周朝守藏室之史。主无为之说，后世以为道家始祖。孔子尝往问礼，著有《道德经》五千余言。现今社会各行业中，如：铁匠、煤窑匠、碗筷匠、磨刀匠、蹄铁匠等，皆祭拜老子为祖师爷。亦称 为伯阳、太上老君、老聃、老君、老子、老子道君、李伯阳、李老君。< / p >
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< p > 以上百度百科。 > 神话中的太上老君，全称“一气化三清太清居火赤天仙登太清境 玄气所成日神宝君道德天尊混元上帝”，简称“老君”。道教天神，传说中的道教教主，为三清之第三位。又称“道德天尊”、“混元老君”、“降生天尊”、“太清大帝”等。三清为玉清元始天尊、上清灵宝天尊、太清道德天尊。 在道教宫观“三清殿”，其塑像居左位，手执蒲扇。相传老君居住在太清圣境。《西游记》中，老君居“离恨天兜率宫”；《封神榜》中，则是“大罗天玄都洞八景宫”。< / p >
< p > 以上依旧是无所不知的百度百科。 封神演义中曾说，盘古开天之后一缕精气所化为老子，元始天尊，通天教主。 老子主人教，元始掌阐教，通天握截教。 三教教主为应杀劫，共同制定封神榜。 凡封神榜上有姓名者皆封神拜将在天庭为官，受天规束缚。 太上老君为人教教主之尊怎可能在天庭供职。 而且为什么他法力差劲的连孙悟空都制服不了。 我严重怀疑这老头在隐藏实力。 可为什么呢？< / p >
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< p > 我想说的是 春困夏乏秋无力，冬日正好眠。< / p >
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< p > MR.NEVER DIE的传奇。 当苍叶还是苍叶时， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， < / p >
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< p > 从最初的“阳台上的波斯湾”， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， （ ） ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ， ！ < / p >
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< p > 新版西游记已经开播，只看两集就觉得被雷到了。 < / p >
< p > 最近在看西游记的吴本小说。 < / p >
< p > 有些很奇妙的地方始终没能在书中找到答案。 < / p >
< p > 一、水帘洞的来历、我感觉水帘洞不可能只是一个单纯的洞府。< / p >
< p > 为何进去之后有石碗石椅石凳石瓢，还有：花果山福地，水帘洞洞天的对联。 < / p >
< p > 二、须菩提祖师的来历。< / p >
< p > 整部书中最深不可测的不是如来不是元始天尊不是老子，而是这位须菩提祖师。< / p >
< p > 这位祖师能谈道论禅。< / p >
< p > 连漫天星宿都无法战胜的齐天大圣孙悟空也不过只是在其门下修行了近十余年而已。 < / p >
< p > 三、孙悟空的辈分是菩提祖师给的。< / p >
< p > 为何猪八戒沙僧的辈分都是悟字辈呢。< / p >
< p > 如果说唐僧是如来的弟子，悟空是唐僧的弟子。 < / p >
< p > 那须菩提祖师又是谁呢。< / p >
< p > 极有可能就是西方圣人之一的准提道人< / p >
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< p > 今天中元节。< / p >
< p > 农历七月十五是_中元节_， < em > 盂兰盆节< / em > < / p >
< p > 道家全年的盛会分三次（合称为”三元”），认为”三元”就是天官、地官及水官”三官”的别称，正月十五、七月十五以及十月十五各为三官大帝的诞辰。< / p >
< p > 根据五杂俎的记载：”道经以正月十五日为上元，七月十五日为中元，十月十五日为下元。”< / p >
< p > 正月十五日称为”上元”，主要是举行赐福的仪式；< / p >
< p > 七月十五日称为”中元”，用以赦免亡魂的罪（中元法事是为亡魂赦罪，但是绝对不能完全解除罪孽，只是减轻了一些，希望他们早日安息。）；< / p >
< p > 十月十五日称为”下元”，则是为有过失的人解除厄运。< / p >
< p > 道教《太上三官经》云：”天官赐福，地官赦罪，水官解厄”，”一切众生皆是天、地、水官统摄”。< / p >
< p > 中元节时，道教宫观如地安门火神庙、西便门外白云观为了祈祷”风调雨顺、国泰民安”照例举办”祈福吉祥道场”。< / p >
< p > 因为惧厉的心理， ， ， < / p >
< p > 佛教传入后， ， ， ， （ ） < / p >
< p > 孟兰盆的意义是倒悬，人生的痛苦有如倒挂在树头上的蝙蝠，悬挂著、苦不堪言。< / p >
< p > 为了使众生免於倒悬之苦，便需要诵经，布绝食物给孤魂野鬼。< / p >
< p > 此举正好和中国的鬼月祭拜不谋而合，因而中元节和孟兰会便同时流传下来。< / p >
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< p > 我讨厌这种操蛋的生活。 连坐个顺风车都不舍得的公司你还有什么好说的呢。 我只能无奈的问候他的母亲大人了。< / p >
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< p > 今天8月8号， < / p >
< p > 立秋。< / p >
< p > 网络上有人称今天是爸爸节。 < / p >
< p > 清早起床去拱北转车。< / p >
< p > 这时天还下着小雨。 < / p >
< p > 如同往常， ， < / p >
< p > 珠海的公交车一直都很多人，降价之后的公交车挤得更加密不透风。 < / p >
< p > 都是上班的人们。< / p >
< p > 赶时间，拼命的往车上塞。< / p >
< p > 就像自己家灌香肠一样，使劲往里塞肉。 < / p >
< p > 我喜欢看着这些行色匆匆的路人。< / p >
< p > 尽管我觉得这样会很拥挤。 < / p >
< p > 八点二十到了站，天已经晴了。< / p >
< p > 太阳有些晒人。 不得不顶着阳光去往公司的方向。< / p >
< p > 颇有段距离。< / p >
< p > 刚好在八点半的时候到达公司打卡。 < / p >
< p > 上班的环境的确不怎么样。 < / p >
< p > 一进实验室热浪扑面而来。< / p >
< p > 这样的情况之下任谁都会抱怨。< / p >
< p > 小公司就这点，爱斤斤计较。 < / p >
< p > 空调坏了能用就行，也不修。< / p >
< p > 一点都不制冷。也不管。 < / p >
< p > 热。闷热。 < / p >
< p > 热的我实在都懒得动了。 < / p >
< p > 边插科打诨的聊天打屁，边动动手打印几张图片，调几个墨水上机测试一下，然后写打印测试报告。 < / p >
< p > 好了。< / p >
< p > 就这样一天过去了。 < / p >
< p > 多么充实的一天啊。< / p >
< p > 过的真他妈有意义。 < / p >
< p > PS 今天是爸爸节的话，我就祝我老爸身体健康长命百岁。 < / p >
< p > 虽然儿子不太听话经常惹你生气。 < / p >
< p > 可儿子长大了。< / p >
< p > 您能别管的事就尽量别管了吧。 < / p >
< p > 气坏了身子，儿子也愧疚。< / p >
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< p > 我今年24了， < / p >
< p > 在我们村子里这都属于奇闻轶事了。< / p >
< p > 就是在那样一个仍然有封建思想残留的小村子里，我已然年迈的父亲找人说媒给我安排了相亲。< / p >
< p > 相亲不是今年才流行来的，而是一直从遥远到不知道什么朝代流传下来的。< / p >
< p > 我的老一辈，我的同辈，甚至我的小辈都注定要把这个模式延续下去。 < / p >
< p > 在父母的催说下我开始了我纠结的相亲之路。 < / p >
< p > 相亲是现实的，他关系到婚姻，他关系到子孙后代，他关系到家族兴旺，他关系到历史更迭。< / p >
< p > 是这样的。我没有任何夸张。 < / p >
< p > 相亲的过程是矛盾而纠结的，有新鲜刺激，有仓皇失措。 < / p >
< p > 我总得找一个我喜欢的人来相爱来相守来相伴到死吧。< / p >
< p > 所以，尽管我相亲的数量在增加但成功率一直没有丝毫见涨。 < / p >
< p > 我很灰心。总结起来有如下几点我没有做到。 < / p >
< p > 第一、彩礼。如今的我没有积蓄没有任何突出的收入。如何能拿出近10W的礼金？ < / p >
< p > 第二、房子。我没有丝毫的信心在我死之前可以买到一套房。 < / p >
< p > 第三、车。四个轮子的车没有。车马炮的车倒是有。 < / p >
< p > 第四、事业。糊口可以富足就永远也谈不上。 < / p >
< p > 就是这样的现实。< / p >
< p > 相亲就是在这样的问题问答当中开始又结束。 < / p >
< p > 仓促的见面又仓促的各奔东西，在各自的记忆中丝毫不会留下半分的印象。 < / p >
< p > 这个社会理想永远是遥远的不可实现的。 < / p >
< p > 就是这么的现实。 < / p >
< p > 今天是七夕。< / p >
< p > 祝福大家有情人终究分手。有钱人终成眷属。< / p >
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