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<div class="post-title">现实就是这么现实</div>
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<span title="发表于 2011.08.06"><i class="far fa-calendar-alt"></i> 2011.08.06</span>
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<blockquote><h3>自动摘要</h3>
ai: 这篇文章介绍了一位24岁大龄未婚青年在其家乡小村子中的相亲经历和心路历程。作者详述了当地封建思想残留影响下的相亲传统以及自己在经济条件、居住环境等方面的不足这些因素使得他在相亲过程中感到矛盾和纠结。最后文章在七夕情人节的背景下以一种略带讽刺的语气祝福读者。
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<div><p>我今年24了属于大龄未婚青年了。</p>
<p> 在我们村子里这都属于奇闻轶事了。</p>
<p> 就是在那样一个仍然有封建思想残留的小村子里,我已然年迈的父亲找人说媒给我安排了相亲。</p>
<p>相亲不是今年才流行来的,而是一直从遥远到不知道什么朝代流传下来的。</p>
<p>我的老一辈,我的同辈,甚至我的小辈都注定要把这个模式延续下去。 </p>
<p>在父母的催说下我开始了我纠结的相亲之路。 </p>
<p>相亲是现实的,他关系到婚姻,他关系到子孙后代,他关系到家族兴旺,他关系到历史更迭。</p>
<p>是这样的。我没有任何夸张。 </p>
<p>相亲的过程是矛盾而纠结的,有新鲜刺激,有仓皇失措。 </p>
<p>我总得找一个我喜欢的人来相爱来相守来相伴到死吧。</p>
<p>所以,尽管我相亲的数量在增加但成功率一直没有丝毫见涨。 </p>
<p>我很灰心。总结起来有如下几点我没有做到。 </p>
<p>第一、彩礼。如今的我没有积蓄没有任何突出的收入。如何能拿出近10W的礼金 </p>
<p>第二、房子。我没有丝毫的信心在我死之前可以买到一套房。 </p>
<p>第三、车。四个轮子的车没有。车马炮的车倒是有。 </p>
<p>第四、事业。糊口可以富足就永远也谈不上。 </p>
<p>就是这样的现实。</p>
<p>相亲就是在这样的问题问答当中开始又结束。 </p>
<p>仓促的见面又仓促的各奔东西,在各自的记忆中丝毫不会留下半分的印象。 </p>
<p>这个社会理想永远是遥远的不可实现的。 </p>
<p>就是这么的现实。 </p>
<p>今天是七夕。</p>
<p>祝福大家有情人终究分手。有钱人终成眷属。</p>
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