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<span title="发表于 2016.12.23"><i class="far fa-calendar-alt"></i> 2016.12.23</span>
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<blockquote><h3>自动摘要</h3>
ai: 这篇文章介绍了作者随着年龄的增长对爱情和网恋的态度发生了变化。文章中提到作者在年轻时通过QQ等通讯工具进行真诚的交流但随着年龄的增长和社会经验的积累开始隐藏真实想法说假话成为常态。这种变化导致作者对网恋持怀疑态度认为网恋充满虚假感情难以把握觉得自己变得越来越冷漠。
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<div><p>随着年龄越来越大,变得越来越不相信爱情。 </p>
<p>网恋更是让人觉得是浪费时间与精力的事情。 </p>
<p>其中充满了大量无意义的对话,甚至大量的虚假的问候,让人充满了怀疑,与自我怀疑。 </p>
<p>这都是因为双方的不信任。这可能与年龄有关。 </p>
<p>在我读书的时候QQ是最流行的通讯工具他的成本比发短信要来的实惠太多。</p>
<p>那时候没有微信,但是每次上线都会有提醒,都会有许久不见的问候,那时的我们都是真实的自己。</p>
<p>我们会把自己的真心话讲给他们听。他们包括熟识的同学朋友,以及素未谋面的网络另一端的那个熟悉的陌生人。 </p>
<p>年级再大了些走出校园走进社会。开始渐渐的学会把真话藏起来把假话说给众人听。_</p>
<p>于是_开始怀疑他人甚至自己的话。</p>
<p>这网恋就越发艰难,虽说现在网恋的成本没有以前那么高,但实在是感觉不到感情了。 </p>
<p>是我们越长大越冷漠了吧。</p>
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