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< blockquote > < h3 > 自动摘要< / h3 >
ai: 这篇文章介绍了一位24岁大龄未婚青年在其家乡小村子中的相亲经历和心路历程。作者详述了当地封建思想残留影响下的相亲传统， ， ，
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< div > < p > 我今年24了， < / p >
< p > 在我们村子里这都属于奇闻轶事了。< / p >
< p > 就是在那样一个仍然有封建思想残留的小村子里，我已然年迈的父亲找人说媒给我安排了相亲。< / p >
< p > 相亲不是今年才流行来的，而是一直从遥远到不知道什么朝代流传下来的。< / p >
< p > 我的老一辈，我的同辈，甚至我的小辈都注定要把这个模式延续下去。 < / p >
< p > 在父母的催说下我开始了我纠结的相亲之路。 < / p >
< p > 相亲是现实的，他关系到婚姻，他关系到子孙后代，他关系到家族兴旺，他关系到历史更迭。< / p >
< p > 是这样的。我没有任何夸张。 < / p >
< p > 相亲的过程是矛盾而纠结的，有新鲜刺激，有仓皇失措。 < / p >
< p > 我总得找一个我喜欢的人来相爱来相守来相伴到死吧。< / p >
< p > 所以，尽管我相亲的数量在增加但成功率一直没有丝毫见涨。 < / p >
< p > 我很灰心。总结起来有如下几点我没有做到。 < / p >
< p > 第一、彩礼。如今的我没有积蓄没有任何突出的收入。如何能拿出近10W的礼金？ < / p >
< p > 第二、房子。我没有丝毫的信心在我死之前可以买到一套房。 < / p >
< p > 第三、车。四个轮子的车没有。车马炮的车倒是有。 < / p >
< p > 第四、事业。糊口可以富足就永远也谈不上。 < / p >
< p > 就是这样的现实。< / p >
< p > 相亲就是在这样的问题问答当中开始又结束。 < / p >
< p > 仓促的见面又仓促的各奔东西，在各自的记忆中丝毫不会留下半分的印象。 < / p >
< p > 这个社会理想永远是遥远的不可实现的。 < / p >
< p > 就是这么的现实。 < / p >
< p > 今天是七夕。< / p >
< p > 祝福大家有情人终究分手。有钱人终成眷属。< / p >
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