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< p > 人生能有多少个十年呢 我不知道 我只知道我已过完了三个十年 半个月前我已经八十岁的外公给我打电话说家里给我提了一个对象 这女子是隔壁村的比我要小上两岁 聊了几天 后来不了了之 可能是我的性格不讨喜 真是对不起外公 这么大年纪了还在为我的婚姻操心 我与ring是高中的同学 做过同桌 跟所有俗烂的二流青春小说一样 我喜欢她 给她写过情书 虽没有亲口表白 但她应该也知道 她不喜欢我这样的 我也知道 后来就毕业上了大学 还有联系 再后来毕了业 就渐渐的没有了联系 今年过年她在朋友圈里发动态说她回来了 我看到之后 马上就去找她 因为第二天我就要去广东 见到了她 ring她跟十年前一样 她见我的第一句话就是培文你怎么胖成这个样子 我无奈笑笑 你的性格还跟以前一样 她笑着对我说 她给我看他女儿的照片 恍然间 十年仿佛转瞬间消失的一样 情谊还在 只不过我们都长大了 有了各自的生活 许久不见得朋友啊在彼此的心中可能就没那么重要了< / p >
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